The other day a coworker mentioned to me that he’s been into romance movies lately, and as with all things entertainment, I had suggestions. So I made a top ten list. After finishing the list I was like, dang, that was fun. Let me do another genre. And another. And another. Now I’ve got lists coming out the wazoo.
What does one do with a plethora of lists? Share them, of course! I’ll start with the romance list, then each day for the next however many days until I run out of lists, I’ll share another. They’re not in any order, and they don’t all have the highest Rotten Tomatoes scores. But they’re movies that I enjoy.
Also, and I’m not saying this to insinuate any level of expertise… but I’ve seen a lot of movies. A family member told me about Letterboxd this past Thanksgiving and what their total was. Naturally, I wanted to know my own. I’m currently sitting at 2,126 different movies watched. That doesn’t include short films or TV shows. Just movies. So I have a lot to choose from.
Anyway, prepare to be romanced.
- Moulin Rouge
- About Time
- 50 First Dates
- How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
- The Princess Bride
- Love Hard
- Love Actually
- WALL-E
- Grosse Pointe Blank
- Fever Pitch
Honorable Mention: Anyone But You
Here are some brief bits of rationale:
Moulin Rouge
Growing up on musicals, this was the first (for my high school self) edgy musical I saw. I’m a sucker for love stories, and as uncomfortable as Satine’s wooing of Christian made me, the songs, the stakes, the spectacle of Moulin Rouge cemented its place in my heart forever. Also, I can’t believe Chicago won best picture that year. Moulin Rouge may not have been the best of the year, but it was better than that overrated noise.
About Time
There are always those movies that will make you cry every time you watch them. This is one of those movies. The love and heartbreak and gumption and reality of Tim and Mary’s life is real and fantastic and reminds you of everything you should be in a spouse and a parent and a child. One of my all-time favorites of any genre.
50 First Dates
Quite possibly the world’s perfect Rom-Com. Well, take about Rob Schneider and it would be. There’s something about the idea of winning the love of someone over and over and over, despite setbacks and hiccups and cheeky walruses that drives home the romance in this. It’s not your typical Adam Sandler, and it’s one of the best movies he’s ever done. At least once a week I quote the “What an asshole!” line (usually in my head).
How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days
Kids today throw the word rizz around like it’s candy. There’s what they think is rizz, and then there’s 2000s Matthew McConaughey. The cat and mouse game between him and Kate Hudson is hilarious and awkward and you feel for both of them but also can’t wait for the train to wreck even harder. Besides, who doesn’t love alliteratively-named protagonists?
The Princess Bride
This may be the most well-loved movie in the history of movies. I don’t know anyone who hates it (and if you do, then I don’t want to know you). My wife and I love this movie so much, we named our kid Westley. Between the multitude of quotable lines to the honest emotions to the iconic performances, there’s no reason this shouldn’t be on the list.
Love Hard
This may be the movie I have to defend the most on this list. I watched it a few years ago thinking it’d be another Hallmark Christmas type movie. It’s so much more. The writing is clever, the plot is just the right level of ridiculous, and Jimmy O. Yang and Nina Dobrev are the adorable couple I never knew I needed. Heart, humor, and holidays: the perfect combination.
Love Actually
The other holiday movie on the list, Love Actually kicked off the braided, themed movie genre. Everyone’s got their favorite storyline. Some are more understandable than others, but the best is always what I call the Lost in Translation story with Colin Firth. I love the idea of two people so perfect for each other that they say and think the same things without the other knowing.
WALL-E
A dystopic world? Robots in love? President Fred Willard? Sign me up! The beauty of WALL-E is that Pixar is able to tell a story with relatively little dialogue. We know exactly what WALL-E is doing and why and it’s perfectly reasonable. Is his obsession with EVE a bit much? Yeah. Is he still adorable? Very much so.
Grosse Pointe Blank
The first celebrity crush I ever had when I was thirteen and I watched Lost in Space. That lasted until I was fourteen and watched Phantom Menace. My crush on Natalie Portman was unshakable until my mid-twenties when I stumbled across Grosse Pointe Blank and understood with 100 percent surety why John Cusack’s character would risk everything for Minnie Driver. A bonkers dark comedy romance, this movie is a great blend of genres that will leave you with a lingering smile.
Fever Pitch
I love baseball. I love Rom-Coms. I love quick wits and awkward flirting. Fever Pitch shows us how to spread your love, to understand that love means different things and can be directed toward different things without diminishing the quality of that love. And it’s got Yankee dancing. F the Yankees.
Honorable Mention: Anyone But You
This is an honorable mention because I’m not sure if I’m feeling recency bias. Sydney Sweeney is adorable and Glen Powell could charm a snake out of its skin. Plus it’s Shakespeare. I’ve been recommending it to everyone because it’s both fun and heart-felt and because Sydney deserves it after agreeing to be in Madame Web just so the studio would make this movie.
Any movies you disagree with, or think are more worthy? Drop a comment. I’m happy to let you know why they don’t belong on my list, even if they fit nicely on yours. :)






































